Payless Shoe Source carries to a 13 and you can buy shoes for under $20 there. Mens I run a 9 1/2-10, womens I can wear a 10 in most open shoes but usually I need an 11 in boots, sneakers and the like. Except for one pair of work boots, I only wear womens shoes now too. Your average shoes the size difference is more like only one size.
Payless also has a website, so you can do mail order with them. Or watch eBay, I've gotten some funky Mary Jane styles there in an 11 for under $20.
I'm here, I'm not queer, but I kind of look like I might be, get used to it... (that's not how they said it on South Park, but close enough for me) ... I'm not a lesbian, I just play one on weekends.