Thanks for the advice. Like I said, I am not sure. The cat ears were for Halloween, but I will remember not to use them. They were made for free for costumes for a con, and I have some friends who want to do a lolita gathering, but since I am included in that I want to do it right, and I am really nothing more than a noob at it. I will take all the advice I can, including where to buy, what to get, etc.
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I also hit more conventions than most people do, so if you see me say hi. Chances are I'll be selling DVDs in the dealer room.