Originally Posted by ImNewHere
I forgot about starting this thread. Well, I have done it, and at my last con got some great reactions. All in all people seemed to like it. I had a much better petticoat than what is in my gallery, so it actually had the nice bell shape.
At the mini room party with some roomies and staff we were talking about relationships, and my department head (yep, I was on staff) told me I would never get a girl if I crossplay, so while I have some stuff coming in on order and stuff coming in for free again I am thinking about giving it up and selling it all off.
OK that is just crazy!! You're gonna give this up just cuz ONE person told you that?? (And that person obviously doesnt have a clue to the real world) I do lolita (as well as crossplay) all the time, and my girlfriend couldnt be more in love with me. Believe me, if you stay true to yourself, you will find a girl who accepts you no matter what!