wow. Just wow. XD How does someone ask for advice and then throw it back in their faces? This is just ridiculous! Seriously.
Yeah, Lolita is a strict style that doesn't allow much room for creativity. Sucks, I know, but those of us who choose to wear it enjoy it, and if you don't like it, then it isn't a style for you. There are ways to incorporate lolita into another style, you can be as free as you want, make arm warmers and still have a cupcake skirt with it, whatever. But don't expect lolitas to buy it and don't intend to sell it as lolita. Call it something else if you want it to be lolita inspired. It's like calling a donkey a horse. Sure, they are similar, but they are completely different.
2012 works in progress:
White Witch (Chronicles of Narnia)
Portia (Hunger Games)
Sugata glittering crux version (Star Driver)
Fire emblem (Tiger and Bunny)
Ash (Adventure Time)
PMX: .... I don't know yet XD;