I'm not sure how people are still arguing about this. The last few pages have been the same arguments over and over.
Summary: Most lolitas aren't bitches, you just happen to have met some nasty ones, lolitas are actually being very helpful and where have YOU been that you didn't notice, and so on.
And... @SecretSoliloquy, I'm sorry, I like to try to see both sides of the argument, but none of your arguments seem to make any sense. :/