Well I am not gay. I am an Asexual meaning I have no interest in anyone really. I don't consider myself cross-playing either as I am a Male to Female transgender. It's not my fault I am like this but you know what the Cosplay community has been the nicest ever to me and if it was not for that I would prolly be long gone by now. Some say i do it for fetish which is not remotely even possible when i am asexual. I have no drive so how can it be fetish? I got a really nice pink Lolita outfit today and am very happy with it but I still have confidence issues. My very first time out to the Anime North in Toronto in May went ok but I didn't look anywhere near as good as I do now as I have learned a lot since then and have grown a lot more hair lol
I didn't think I could pull off pink Lolita though. My friend says it looks ok but I just don't know
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