Honestly I think gender is irrelevant. You are who you feel you are. I have always felt I was female my entire life and if that is what I feel I am then that is what I am regardless of my natural gender of which I despise.
"Luceo Non Uro" - I Shine Not Burn - MacLeod of Lewis, Raasay and Assynt, 1200AD - present
"History is full of great people, great heroes. I am no hero just a baymen with a great dream" - My brother, Lt MacLeod, Sqdn 439, RCAF.