Originally Posted by Marika
...Then point her in the direction of staff so that something can be done about it. Going to the internet doesn't help because the right people may never see it, but writing the incident down and sending it to the con chair (firstname.lastname@example.org) does. Not being reported doesn't mean it remains a rumor, it means it won't be taken care of because those who need to know about it don't.
You are aware of the percentages of rapes and sexual assaults that are not reported to the police and the reasons why? What you are doing is borderline victim-shaming.