Speaking from a 'cute chick's perspective, I like guys who crossplay... I think it's not so much dignity as is... oh what's the word... the thing that means you like DAMN I can't think of it. Like, guys who crossplay aren't restricted by gender they just have confidence in whoever they are, comfortable with themselves, right, BRAVERY a ha ha ha that's the word. It takes balls to dress like a girl, and I for one admire them for that.
And from a female crossplayer's perspective.... boy are the guy's costumes more comfortable! HEEEEEEEEEEEE
and in some characters, you can still be cute and glomp-y!