I am a MtF transgender so I do not consider it cross-dressing at all. In fact the first 12 years of my life I grew up female and was raised with Mary Janes, white tights, petticoats and dresses to the knees. However I was forced back to male and I never had the guts to dress like that again until I finally got fed up and said you know what this is who I am and that was that. This is my very first pink Lolita outfit I got yesterday. I have feared wearing this type so for years I just went with the long Victorian style / steampunk stuff. I am not a pro at this in fact I consider myself a noob-ette but I have enough experience in my past t understand the style and I hope I can get it right
"Luceo Non Uro" - I Shine Not Burn - MacLeod of Lewis, Raasay and Assynt, 1200AD - present
"History is full of great people, great heroes. I am no hero just a baymen with a great dream" - My brother, Lt MacLeod, Sqdn 439, RCAF.