Mind if I ask how old you are and how you request to order online?
I used to have issues until I learned the proper way to 'ask', which has generally consisted of me telling
my eye doctor, prior
to examination, that I need to occasionally purchase theatrical lenses. If they say no, I take my business elsewhere since that's the primary reason I get fitted for contacts; I can be belligerent at times.
So far I've been to three different Lens Crafters and have had absolutely no issues ordering. My most recent one did request that I bring any scleral lenses back in so he can assess their quality, but I have no problems with that.
ALSO, you should post these questions under Cosplay Construction / Makeup and Eye Contacts. The forum you posted this thread in is literally for reviews; you're unlikely to get many responses here.