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Unread 05-13-2013, 02:47 PM   #31
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Remember that there are always other fish in the sea. Just because you caught a lamprey doesn't mean you have to keep it. You could throw it back and end up with a beautiful bass, you never know.
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All i can say is try your best to not let that stuff get to you and continue to live your life.
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Unread 05-13-2013, 03:40 PM   #32
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It's only bothering me because this is the first time something like this has happened to me. I mean, the absolute audacity of it is just... Wow. To each their own, I suppose, but I don't feel like what they did was appropriate at all. I don't care about him so much as I care that they did that.
I'll live though, I'm just completely shocked that anyone who's been in a relationship for nearly a year can go out the same day and hook up with that person's best friend.
Ugh. I dunno, i'm not one for drama, i'm just so infuriated right now that it's debilitating. I know I shouldn't let it bother me, but wow. I'll get over it though.
Absolutely and you have the right to feel that way. Good for you that you're over it now as I'm sure it was a big shock (and a lot of frustration). If it was me before, I would not know what to do. It's better not to create more drama for yourself and I think you picked the best choice for you. It'll get better soon, you'll see. :3
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Unread 05-13-2013, 05:48 PM   #33
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So, I broke it off, but enter the drama..
It was the day of my 18th birthday, 3 days ago now, and as soon as we broke it off he goes out and "falls in love" with my best friend.. It's not jealousy, I can promise you that, it's anger, and it's knowing that she knew that him and I were an item that bothers me.. Especially since I walked in on them with each other's tongues down their throats on the night of my birthday, when I went to go do my usual thing with my best friend, stay up late and game.
This is absolutely absurd. Do I have a right to be infuriated? Because i'm absolutely livid. I know we broke up, but everything in this picture is just wrong.
Same thing happened to me, and frankly I was pissed too. I say dump the friend, she can't be that close to you if she did this.
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Unread 05-13-2013, 09:33 PM   #34
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Seems like you dodged a bullet. Congrats! I'd celebrate by doing all the fun stuff he didn't want you to do.

I would also reassess my friendship with the girl, since if you told her at all about your problems with him, and she was still perfectly happy to be the rebound, she's neither that great a friend nor particularly smart.
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Unread 05-14-2013, 02:09 AM   #35
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So glad I didn't date anything until I was out of high school, not gonna lie.

It's not surprising that young people do stupid things but it's up to you who you want to be around.

The guy didn't sound that great so I'm not surprised that he would do something like that. I'm not sure what to feel about the friend - if she knew that he's kind of a dumbass and still went for it that's kind of sad but, honestly, this kind of stuff is too complicated for me - in that it boils down to "young people especially make really poor choices sometimes because they lack life experience and reflection and fully developed brains" (in studies even prodigies of great intelligence suffered from the same judgemental gaps characteristic of that age-range and the stage of brain development).
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Unread 05-14-2013, 08:25 AM   #36
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Seems like you dodged a bullet. Congrats! I'd celebrate by doing all the fun stuff he didn't want you to do.

I would also reassess my friendship with the girl, since if you told her at all about your problems with him, and she was still perfectly happy to be the rebound, she's neither that great a friend nor particularly smart.
This.

also, thank you for being one of the few people to come on this site, ask for relationship advice and actually listen to us.

UNLIKE SOME OTHERS WHO KNOW WHO THEY ARE.

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Unread 05-14-2013, 08:50 AM   #37
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It actually sounds like the only reason the OP's now ex is going for her best friend is to make her jealous. It's a classic dick move by controlling douchebags.
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Unread 05-14-2013, 09:02 AM   #38
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also, thank you for being one of the few people to come on this site, ask for relationship advice and actually listen to us.
There is also plenty more barbecue advice available.

Ask me about my butterflied leg of lamb!
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Unread 05-14-2013, 09:14 AM   #39
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I was in a relationship for 4yrs, and he hated my otaku self. I'm 32yrs old, so part of his argument was that I'm too old to be watching 'cartoons', reading 'comic books', and playing video games. Leaving that relationship was the best thing I did---- Don't let anyone try to change you or make you feel bad about your true self, ever.

I hope it all works out for you
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Unread 05-14-2013, 02:16 PM   #40
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This.

also, thank you for being one of the few people to come on this site, ask for relationship advice and actually listen to us.

UNLIKE SOME OTHERS WHO KNOW WHO THEY ARE.

Ahem.
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