There are so many faces, and so many brands and colours and kinds of make-up, that just listing what's in your bag isn't going to give us the best idea of how to help.
If you wouldnt mind uploading a picture of you without make-up, your best attempt at make-up so far (don't worry, we're all learning and growing here) and maybe an image of the kind of look you would like to get closer too.
Like others said, less is usually more. When not applied correctly, or trying to force a look too much, make-up can age the wearer or indeed give a drag effect.
If you're uncomfortable uploading the pictures, stay with a more natural level of makeup, take extra care if you're prone to a shadow (stage makeup maybe?), and find some images of women with features similar to you.
Whatever feature you consider masuline, be it your brow, jawline, chin, see if you can find a female with those features and see if you can gain inspiration from how they still do look feminine.
ps. don't sweat it, you'll look great, have a ball and get better every time!