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Unread 05-14-2007, 08:04 PM   #1
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con dateing?

I know this is not the place for counseling or anything, but do couples work out when they meet at cons and if they're far away from each other? I don't know what to do. I love her, but i'd rather not fight over her. I love her with all my heart and soul but- i don't get to see her often. I'm really confused.
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Unread 05-14-2007, 08:06 PM   #2
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You'd be better off asking Ann Landers than a group of socially inept cosplayers. You've already acknowledged that this isn't a relationship counselling site, so don't treat it as one.

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Unread 05-14-2007, 08:08 PM   #3
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the only real reason why i'm asking the "sight" is because i met her at a con. and i know alot of other people met their "lovers" at anime cons too. so that's why I'm asking.
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Unread 05-14-2007, 08:11 PM   #4
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So? You're still asking how to deal with a long-distance relationship, and your original post was primarily based around, "I love her so much! What do I do?!"

Thus, it isn't cosplay related, and it's barely convention-related.

Seek help elsewhere, honestly. You won't find the answers you're looking for here.
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Unread 05-14-2007, 08:12 PM   #5
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Unread 05-14-2007, 08:13 PM   #6
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i'll give you my input, in a pm ok.
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Unread 05-14-2007, 08:14 PM   #7
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Unread 05-14-2007, 08:15 PM   #8
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You'd be better off asking Ann Landers than a group of socially inept cosplayers. You've already acknowledged that this isn't a relationship counselling site, so don't treat it as one.

Blunt, but true.

Word.

However keep in mind, long distance relationships rarely work out. Temptation is just too an intoxicating thing.
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Hiro, you're better off calling Love Line than get a straight answer worth looking into on this site. The very few that have met their lovers at cons have probably ended by the way side. See, even if someone like lets say "Angathol" and I hooked up at a con, we have the whole distance thing going against us and thats no good.... and then there's the fact that she's a Canuck. Ick Canada!!!

Probably just best of you seek this advice on a personal level than on a public forum
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Unread 05-14-2007, 08:18 PM   #10
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Not long till someone swings the mod hammer on this one I think....
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Unread 05-14-2007, 08:26 PM   #11
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Long distance relationships rarely work for adults, let alone anime-crazed convention hobbyists under the age of 21.

Spare yourself the wasted effort, Hiro, and end the 'relationship'.
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Unread 05-14-2007, 08:29 PM   #12
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See, even if someone like lets say "Angathol" and I hooked up at a con
You wish, Pedobear.
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Unread 05-14-2007, 08:33 PM   #13
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I am of course going to quickly add my few cents to this before this thread
get's closed, but I believe in con dating. I'm single of course and I feel it's
only fair to say that communication is the key here whereas distance is a
issue but maybe someday you guys can meet each other half way and make
something work. I am of course have a crush aswell on another otaku on
the other side of Canada...in the east coast and I feel in my heart, even
if him do not connect, at least we had a 'ghost of a chance' to meet each
other and keep in contact. So brace yourself, because love is out there for
you and me and everyone else and it's better to know now than not know at all.
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Unread 05-14-2007, 08:36 PM   #14
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Sue and Matt hooking up? Ew no. FayeSue and MattSpike getting it on? Oh yes.
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Unread 05-14-2007, 08:37 PM   #15
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yall are harsh!

Its not like he said "Hey I got some girl knocked up at a con, what should i do?" he asked a decent question but none of you even considered what it meant to him to get a kind answer. Plus bluntness isnt always the answer.
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