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Unread 10-11-2012, 08:40 AM   #56776
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Here's a shocker, it's possible to be friends with women. It's even possible to be attracted to them and still be just be friends. I'm friends with loads of girls I find attractive, why wouldn't I they're beautiful funny kind people. Does that mean I want a relationship with all of them? No.
I was convinced of that for many years of my life. Looking back, however --- I've realized it's not a possibility the moment I actively desire a relationship with one of them and they don't.

That scenario always boils down to awkwardness at the very moment of that realization (And it drives me nuts, the tone of every conversation changes), then it's either a choice to suppress everything while they go hook up with whoever or break off contact. Sticking around and pretending has never been good in any case for me whenever I've tried.

It is possible to go back to being friends once I've moved on to other pursuits.

I'm quite sure that works the same way with women, "Sigh, each time he says something about his new gf it hurts a little inside", why would someone of any gender torture themselves so? Because it's the right thing to do? hahahaha....

And you know, the ladder theory is good satire, it uses some common behaviors and magnifies them in just the right way to sound correct, while it's not the whole truth. That's why it works as satire, but is not just satire.

However, I routinely mock the idea that there's a "rule" to abide by for anything involving humans, everything that's horked up in conversation or the internet on this will resonate with some people and not others. None of it is the truth. Honestly, I tend to latch to the more negative views than the morally righteous ones simply because the morally righteous one are always written in that little tone of "I AM TAKING THE MORAL HIGH GROUND, THUS I AM CORRECT." so I argue against it in the same tone of how the initial argument sounds to me --- condescending and soapbox-y.

Probably the entire reason why satire and mockery is more my thing.

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Unread 10-11-2012, 09:30 AM   #56777
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...has Kildread been hanging around with Neko or something?
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Unread 10-11-2012, 09:30 AM   #56778
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Unread 10-11-2012, 09:31 AM   #56779
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RE: Girls n' stuff

Being friends with someone of the opposite sex, assuming that is your interest, does not always end in awkward half-fulfilled loves. But it doesn't always end in two people mutually accepting that person X just isn't into person Y and they continue on having the same happy platonic friendship they did before person Y came forward with their feelings.

People aren't so cut and dry, not everyone carries their feelings the same way and it would be unfair to dictate how someone should continue on in their unfulfilled desires.

Sometimes we just cannot be around the individual our desires are directed at, sometimes we can put aside our interest. Neither one is right or wrong over the other.



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I've taken up Yoga again, I'd like to continue with weight lifting but the weights I used at Brando's belonged to his mother so I have to save up to buy some more.

I've gotten into an apathetic slump the past few days, I know that exercise helps ease symptoms of depression (something about endorphin's or what have you) and I need to keep myself feeling busy and active with something besides sitting on my butt drawing all day.

My back pain is at an all time FUCKING AWFUL lately as well, so I am hoping Yoga will ease that as well as a little less 'on my ass drawing'.

I wish I could find a place that was positive in discussing exercising and food that didn't involve pro-anorexic girls quoting super models.
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Unread 10-11-2012, 09:36 AM   #56780
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...has Kildread been hanging around with Neko or something?
i dont know what youre talking about, im a proper gentleman and everything.

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Unread 10-11-2012, 11:09 AM   #56781
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Oh please, you wouldn't know a proper gentleman if he paddy-wacked your testicles.
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Unread 10-11-2012, 11:17 AM   #56782
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Oh please, you wouldn't know a proper gentleman if he paddy-wacked your testicles.
I don't think a proper gentleman would do that...........
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Unread 10-11-2012, 11:25 AM   #56783
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Oh please, you wouldn't know a proper gentleman if he paddy-wacked your testicles.
Are you soliciting me?
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Unread 10-11-2012, 11:30 AM   #56784
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This has escalated quickly.
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Unread 10-11-2012, 11:34 AM   #56785
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This has escalated quickly.
Don't jump to conclusions, I haven't accepted Volnixshin's advances yet.
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Unread 10-11-2012, 11:46 AM   #56786
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Don't jump to conclusions, I haven't accepted Volnixshin's advances yet.
Yet.
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Unread 10-11-2012, 11:49 AM   #56787
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Yet.
Now now, don't start the KilXVol fanfiction so quick!
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Unread 10-11-2012, 11:55 AM   #56788
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You say that like I already haven't.
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Unread 10-11-2012, 12:06 PM   #56789
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You say that like I already haven't.
Nnnnooooooo!!!!
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Unread 10-11-2012, 12:31 PM   #56790
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What have I stumbled onto? O_o
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