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Unread 09-16-2012, 09:44 PM   #4096
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yea shes pretty bad but really shes just scared to lose me ... the funny thing is now im so out of flirting shape its not even funny i don't have any of the charm i used to. i just got to last till the end of october...
*facepalm* stop excusing this behavior. You don't have to last to October, you don't have to last another 5 minutes. You are contributing to your own problem here by letting it continue.
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Unread 09-16-2012, 09:44 PM   #4097
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Unread 09-16-2012, 09:45 PM   #4098
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yea shes pretty bad but really shes just scared to lose me ... the funny thing is now im so out of flirting shape its not even funny i don't have any of the charm i used to. i just got to last till the end of october...
Bro..She's not scared to lose you..She is paranoid. This is showing that she does not trust you. She won't learn to trust you either so don't think that. No matter how long you are together she will ALWAYS think that you are cheating on her or whatever. Don't wait till the end of Oct. She will NOT change. I've read up on things like this. They should not be dating people until they can come to the realization that not everyone in the world is bad.
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Unread 09-16-2012, 09:51 PM   #4099
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Is this the same girl I met at the con, dude?
She totally did NOT seem like that type the whole time..I'm so sorry bro, you don't deserve that. I know what it's like to be with a girl like that..It's torture..You need to leave man..Just from the time we have hung out I can tell you aren't the type she seems to think you are. You are a pretty kool guy and I honestly think the reason you can't seem to get other GF's is because you are more shy about it. But you know what? That's a GOOD THING!! At least you're not a womanizer and all that other shit. So she should be HAPPY you aren't like that..

Sorry this is troubling you bro. Need anyone to talk to, you have my number.
yea its the same girl, but i know she will be faithful to me that most other girls will not. im just out of dating shape. im really loyal ill never think of cheating or anything. im used to not attracting many girls. its really hard for me to be more...charming or less shy but yea my gf says how attractive i am but i think shes the only one who sees it.
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Unread 09-16-2012, 09:53 PM   #4100
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Why till the end of October?????
because she is going to room with me at aki con and i cannot get a roomie because the bed is a king and im not sharing a bed with another man. plus i ordered parts for her cosplay using my money it would be bad if i kept the parts.
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Unread 09-16-2012, 09:56 PM   #4101
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Bro..She's not scared to lose you..She is paranoid. This is showing that she does not trust you. She won't learn to trust you either so don't think that. No matter how long you are together she will ALWAYS think that you are cheating on her or whatever. Don't wait till the end of Oct. She will NOT change. I've read up on things like this. They should not be dating people until they can come to the realization that not everyone in the world is bad.
yea i just wish i did not spend so much money on her
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Unread 09-16-2012, 10:23 PM   #4102
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yea i just wish i did not spend so much money on her
That is something all men wish lol We all spend WAY too much to please someone lol I do A LOT!! But still I understand not wanting to now that you said she's rooming at aki with you..That would certainly not work....I mean, it's also kinda rude to make her room with you just so you have a roomie. I really can't help here..
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Unread 09-16-2012, 10:29 PM   #4103
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That is something all men wish lol We all spend WAY too much to please someone lol I do A LOT!! But still I understand not wanting to now that you said she's rooming at aki with you..That would certainly not work....I mean, it's also kinda rude to make her room with you just so you have a roomie. I really can't help here..
im saying that, if i break up with her. it would be really lonley to stay in the room by myself.
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Unread 09-16-2012, 10:38 PM   #4104
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Oh..That..Well..If you are still able to pay by yourself, you still have time to look for someone to room with..Think of it this way, Would you rather stay in a room with a guy, or alone? If you said alone then stick with that..At least you have the WHOLE room to yourself..That could be a good thing lol You just gotta think of the positives man. Don't think of it as staying alone, think of it as not having to worry about if you can take a shower when the other perosn might weant one, or you can change outside of the bathroom. Thinking about it that say makes ME want to have a room myself lol But it's better to be alone in the room then with someone that thinks and talks the way she does to you. Also remember you can get a cheap cot or air mattress and sleep on that, or say in a thread asking for a roomie that THEY must bring one to sleep on. If you are clear and someone still wants to room they will..
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Unread 09-16-2012, 10:42 PM   #4105
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Oh..That..Well..If you are still able to pay by yourself, you still have time to look for someone to room with..Think of it this way, Would you rather stay in a room with a guy, or alone? If you said alone then stick with that..At least you have the WHOLE room to yourself..That could be a good thing lol You just gotta think of the positives man. Don't think of it as staying alone, think of it as not having to worry about if you can take a shower when the other perosn might weant one, or you can change outside of the bathroom. Thinking about it that say makes ME want to have a room myself lol But it's better to be alone in the room then with someone that thinks and talks the way she does to you. Also remember you can get a cheap cot or air mattress and sleep on that, or say in a thread asking for a roomie that THEY must bring one to sleep on. If you are clear and someone still wants to room they will..
yes i am, but alone but true but true...
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Unread 09-16-2012, 10:50 PM   #4106
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Well I think I'm gonna finish with this:
Unless you leave her nothing will change, she will continue to make you feel like you do. Rooming or not is up to you. You seem to not want to room with anyone else so we can't do too much.
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Unread 09-16-2012, 11:37 PM   #4107
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ok now if she does not calm down by the end of my days off ill break up with her yada yada yada * snip *
Uhhh Is it really that hard to end things? The only (if plausible) reason i can see someone staying in ...well... that is if they have some type of financial obligation or something that involved money......Do you owe her money or something.. idk it just seems like its a lot of trouble being involved with another human that clearly doesnt respect you when it comes to that type of relationship. This is just a outsider looking in; in-which the "in" really looks like a mess and a partial waste of your life.
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Unread 09-17-2012, 01:26 AM   #4108
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Wow all the relationship troubles here. After listening to "I am going to kill the person who thought of advertising a "have a happy period" my boyfriend decided to send me this: http://youtu.be/aEj31njaeX0 Relationships are a lot of give or take and a lot of times knowing when is the best time to risk their temper.

Going up and reading what I missed better. I think this site needs a sub-relationship rant thread. XD

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Done reading; seriously ditch the crazy bitch before you wake up to her standing over you with a knife. It is normal of sorts for some woman to get bothered by men looking at other woman be it real or not but not to that extent. Hate to see how her temper would fly if she walked in to you wanking to porn. Speaking of, the type of man she needs is the type that gets some sort of sick amusement from this type of crap. Obviously your the type of person that needs a woman more on the sane end... And probably more sane then you. Obviously your a bit off your rocker for not running out the door sooner.

Trust me if she does care for you you will end up back with her again. Trust me, there is truth to the saying 'if you love her let her go, if she comes back it's meant to be'. I've been in a nearly decade long it's so fucking complicated you can't believe relationship I know how feelings will end you up back at square one. But you know what the difference is? Each time we learn our lesson and we work out a compermise. Yeah it's not perfect, and on some days we try to drive each other nuts. But we know better then to fling allegations that are unfounded and untrue at each other.

Be with someone who compliments you in some way, not torments you.

"because she is going to room with me at aki con and i cannot get a roomie because the bed is a king and im not sharing a bed with another man. plus i ordered parts for her cosplay using my money it would be bad if i kept the parts."

No it wouldn't it's your money, it's your full right to keep them. It doesn't make you an asshole if you choose to do so. How many woman/men here have given back things after a relationship or given things back.

Really man hope things get better for you soon.
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Unread 09-17-2012, 06:54 AM   #4109
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You're an idiot who can't think or act for yourself. If you haven't gotten the fact in your head that this will never end, you deserve each other
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Unread 09-17-2012, 08:22 AM   #4110
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You're an idiot who can't think or act for yourself. If you haven't gotten the fact in your head that this will never end, you deserve each other
Sometimes when we may be overly sympathetic with someone we give them more credit and more allowances to do bad things. I am sure that he's perfectly understanding of exactly what's going on, but that he's willingly putting aside his better judgement and will make excuses for not leaving her because it's easier and less scary then to deal with the consequences.
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