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Unread 11-27-2012, 11:56 PM   #4531
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; m; Thank you. Just, thank you. (btw, your experience sounded so horrible. Terrible. Worst than mine. BUT I think I just didn't take it that far) I was very mean to him RIGHT after he called me a 'dumbass', for sure. like whatever he said, I barely replied to or just downright shot him down. .... That didn't seem to work at all and things just really got weird after all of that. :/

Anyways, I'm just glad it's all over. Thanks for caring and sharing your story! I know for certain it's not right for anyone to make another person feel uncomfortable but sometimes the things family teaches you makes you think you're crazy too. BUT I will stay strong. I would hate for that to happen to me again. :/


PS. Also, the event is always loads of fun. Sometimes some people meet creepiers and stalkers, BUT buddy system always is a must and safe! And as long you have a buddy, it makes things more entertaining! Haha.
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Unread 11-28-2012, 11:25 PM   #4532
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Whenever something goes wrong, it's my fault.
When you live with someone who is obsessed with cleaning and they don't Look before they throw things away, guess what happens? You lose lottery tickets that could be worth money. Now I get to dig through the trash. Damn it all. I do not want to dig through anything because you didn't check the damn things before you tossed the good ones instead of the bad ones!
Yeah..you're family...yeah...I have to like you...but...you're getting on my nerves.
You want to hire someone to do something? Let them do their job, don't do it for them before they even get to the house.
You want me to be more independent...then stop shooting down all my plans to go see friends and get things done.
Oh yeah, and, that thing you call "encouragement"? Degrading and telling someone everything that they did wrong and how they do nothing right? That's not helping.
Ugh.
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Unread 11-28-2012, 11:31 PM   #4533
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Lithium Flower:
; m; Thank you. Just, thank you. (btw, your experience sounded so horrible. Terrible. Worst than mine. BUT I think I just didn't take it that far) I was very mean to him RIGHT after he called me a 'dumbass', for sure. like whatever he said, I barely replied to or just downright shot him down. .... That didn't seem to work at all and things just really got weird after all of that. :/

Anyways, I'm just glad it's all over. Thanks for caring and sharing your story! I know for certain it's not right for anyone to make another person feel uncomfortable but sometimes the things family teaches you makes you think you're crazy too. BUT I will stay strong. I would hate for that to happen to me again. :/


PS. Also, the event is always loads of fun. Sometimes some people meet creepiers and stalkers, BUT buddy system always is a must and safe! And as long you have a buddy, it makes things more entertaining! Haha.
Don't worry about it ^^ I am happy for you that the guy is gone now and you don't have to deal with him.

It sounds like he just didn't like you turning him down and handled the situation very poorly. You don't need to worry about guy's like that anyway :P

Sometimes our families and friends teach us things that might not always be right because it's the only way they know how to handle a bad situation. If you are happy and feel safe that's all that matters!
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Unread 11-29-2012, 07:29 AM   #4534
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My guy friends keep posting this kind of bullshit

https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?f...&type=1&ref=nf

And I wanna scream and punt them. Idk I just have a loathing for these overly hard trying type posts that seem sweet but on the inside are really nice guy sounding.
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Unread 11-29-2012, 08:00 AM   #4535
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You know what's better?

Actually doing nice things for them than posting pictures on Facebook telling people to do them.

Good boyfriends/girlfriends don't need to tell people that they are good.
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Unread 11-29-2012, 08:05 AM   #4536
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You know what's better?

Actually doing nice things for them than posting pictures on Facebook telling people to do them.

Good boyfriends/girlfriends don't need to tell people that they are good.
Thank you, someone who gets it....

The real kicker was my friend posted the picture and wrote at the top "now to just wait for the girl to notice"

And I wanted to throw my computer.
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Once upon an evening dreary, while I lurked weak and weary,
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While I nodded, nearly napping, suddenly there came a bitching,
As of some one gently pitching, bitching at my chamber door.
`'Tis JasonTerror,' I muttered, `bitching at my chamber door -
Only this, and nothing more.'
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Unread 11-29-2012, 08:12 AM   #4537
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Well if the girl is as much of a shit head as he is, match made in heaven.

Usually when I do nice things it goes something like:

*hand her gift*
her: oh thank you!
me: fuck you.

I smile when I say that to be fair.
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Unread 11-29-2012, 08:15 AM   #4538
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Well if the girl is as much of a shit head as he is, match made in heaven.

Usually when I do nice things it goes something like:

*hand her gift*
her: oh thank you!
me: fuck you.

I smile when I say that to be fair.
I guess nice guys really do finish last...
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Once upon an evening dreary, while I lurked weak and weary,
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While I nodded, nearly napping, suddenly there came a bitching,
As of some one gently pitching, bitching at my chamber door.
`'Tis JasonTerror,' I muttered, `bitching at my chamber door -
Only this, and nothing more.'
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Unread 11-29-2012, 08:17 AM   #4539
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Legitimately nice guys who aren't trying to impress anyone finish last.
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Unread 11-29-2012, 08:19 AM   #4540
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Legitimately nice guys who aren't trying to impress anyone finish last.
But that's not a "nice guy" that's just a normal guy who isn't a shit person.
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As of some one gently pitching, bitching at my chamber door.
`'Tis JasonTerror,' I muttered, `bitching at my chamber door -
Only this, and nothing more.'
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Unread 11-29-2012, 08:22 AM   #4541
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Exactly!

Thankfully my attitude means I finish about...not quite last...
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Unread 11-29-2012, 08:50 AM   #4542
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"I don't know what to talk about, but i wanna talk to you."

What a valid fanpage --- I don't think I can ever like one of those repository of trite "funny"/"meaningful" image edits.
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Unread 11-29-2012, 08:54 AM   #4543
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Legitimately nice guys who aren't trying to impress anyone finish last.
Everyone else gets disqualified eventually, though.
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Unread 11-29-2012, 09:58 AM   #4544
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I love how we can just all be embittered together.
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Once upon an evening dreary, while I lurked weak and weary,
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While I nodded, nearly napping, suddenly there came a bitching,
As of some one gently pitching, bitching at my chamber door.
`'Tis JasonTerror,' I muttered, `bitching at my chamber door -
Only this, and nothing more.'
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Unread 11-29-2012, 11:59 AM   #4545
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There's a dumb op-ed on my university's page about LGBT's "counter-hate" of Christians. Ironically, it was posted on the same day as an article about sororities discriminating against lesbians. On the bright side, the campus LGBT club is talking about getting together and discussing it. I've been wanting to get involved with them.
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