This video is great for a natural look and it'll help since a man doing the tutorial on himself. Some of the tools he's using will help, but you can get by with a basic set (I suggest a blender, dome, and eyeliner brush). Also look into using a little bronzer or blush on TOP of the cheek bone (Underneath will make you look more masculine, it's a trick F>M crossers use). Lip gloss or tinted chap stick will help a lot, too.
You have a really good natural base to work with and I think that you'll be able to trap people very well. To modify your body shape, if you're comfortable with skirts, try pumpkin skirts. (http://cn1.kaboodle.com/img/b/0/0/1b...=1324187616000
) They don't have to be the severe kind. If you're not comfortable with that, you're doing the right thing by wearing clothes with pockets to make your hips look wider.